It’s easy to find
people out there struggling with coping with their environment and society at
large. Well, the reason for this is not farfetched. Let’s get going then. What
are the reasons then, someone is asking me! Yes, firstly, we could say
inability to manage ones circumstance. We can as well say when people get tired
of trying to “fit in”. Lack of etiquettes might as well hinder individuals from
getting the best from their society. Let’s see if we can understand this more
better this way. I once witnessed a generator set still steaming when the spark
plug head wire had moved out (not touching the head of the plug) and all of a
sudden a scream was heard from the back. For what – electric shock? Generator
set on fire? My friend, none of the above questions was reason for the cry. The
cry was only made by an individual who saw the situation and felt ‘this
generator set might be on fire at any moment now’. Well his fear was abated as
the situation was finally resolved. Now let’s relate this to our subject. The
inability of an individual to adequately communicate (connect like the plug
wire) with the society might raise an alarm that might cause a big harm. This
situation is found when people try to get to know people not to develop a good
relationship with them but just to get something they might need from them
thereby engaging in relationships based on shadows. Why do you scream out when
it seems the world is turning against you? Build a connector now and make it
fast. Maintain a good relationship with people and don’t just hang around
people, just like the relationship that exist between a shark and a remora or
that of ferns and the palm tree. When Joseph Newton made the statement “people
are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges”, he was not trying to
bargain an idea with you, and he was only pushing out a point. Build a bridge
and link yourself to generous information or build a wall and keep yourself
from the great investment and opportunities, maybe on yourself or others.
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